Or husband I guess... DADA's post about his Anniversary got me thinking, and thought this would be a pretty good thread! As I seem to be getting out of another worthless relationship where I was beginning to think about the future ... I have been wondering what people in successful marriages did to realize OR how they knew their wife (or husband) was "the one." Was it a love at first sight? Did you meet online? Did a friend introduce you all? Bar? Craig's List? ETC... Just looking for some insight. NOT saying as a 21 y/o college kid that I am ready to get married or anything like that, just wondering how you all found and realized you were with the ONE you wanted to spend the rest of your life with.